A man must seduce a woman. You also have to protect your woman from other men.

A man must seduce a woman. You also have to protect your woman from other men. Women should invest a lot in their children.Nine months of pregnancy and years of parenting are required. It devotes time and energy and increases the chance of premature death. There is also a limit to the number of children you can give birth to in a lifetime. Men have low reproductive costs. I have a lot of relationships with a lot of women and I can also have a lot of children. You don't even have to be around all the time. Many women can raise their children without the help of others.

The goal of evolution is breeding, so men want to have sex with as many women as possible. This makes them compete for women.

A woman's reproductive success depends not on how many men she has had but on her ability to access resources (food, shelter, and protection) for herself and her children. Therefore, women are more picky than men. Women do not choose men who fall in love at first sight. They compete to get men with more resources. Wealthy and high-ranking men have an advantage. Therefore, when choosing reason (expressed as unconscious preference), it is influenced by the fact that women have more to lose.

Studies have shown that women have placed more importance on the financial prospects of their potential spouses. They also preferred ambitious and diligent men. Women preferred older men. Men preferred young women. Men rated physical attractiveness higher than women. The study also showed that men feel the most jealous when women have physical relationships with others. Women feel the most jealous when men are emotionally attached to others.

Women are less likely to take risks. It is more affected by the possibility of loss. Less competitive and less positional. Other studies also show differences in male and female behavioral and cognitive abilities. Some of these reflect different effects of hormones on brain development. As in most cases, this depends on the situation.

- Excerpted translation from Seeking Wisdom